Drew Barrymore avuga ku byemezo by'umwaka mushya n'uburyo bwo gutuma ibiruhuko byawe biba byiza kurushaho

Mu myaka 30 ishize, Drew Barrymore yandika ibyifuzo bye ku makarita y'iposita akabyoherereza ubwe mu ijoro ry'ubunani. Ni umuco akora wenyine cyangwa ari kumwe n'abandi, kandi aho azajya mu biruhuko bye hose, azana amakarita y'iposita yanditseho kashe kugira ngo yandike imigambi ye y'umwaka. Amakarita y'iposita yo mu myaka mike ishize akwirakwijwe mu ma aderesi atandukanye n'udusanduku tw'ububiko, icyegeranyo cy'amasezerano yubahiriza n'ayo yarenzeho.
“Buri gihe numva, kenshi, ko iyi ari ingeso mbi mu buzima bwanjye,” yabibwiye NYLON binyuze kuri Zoom. “Nyuma y’imyaka 20, natekereje nti: “Birababaje cyane kuba nkiri kwandika ibi. Amaherezo narabikosoye kandi nishimiye kubivuga, ariko ni ikizamini cyiza cya litmus kuko umeze nkawe, Mana yanjye, ikintu kimwe.” buri mwaka?”
Muri uyu mwaka, Barrymore arateganya gukora bike – akazi katoroshye kuri uyu mukinnyi wa filime akaba n'umunyamakuru w'ikiganiro. Ariko nanone ni ukwifata igihe azareka akazi agakomeza inzira ye yo gukomeza ibidukikije, byoroheye cyane ubufatanye bwe na Grove Co., ikigo cya mbere ku isi kigurisha ibicuruzwa by’umwimerere, kugira ngo abantu bafate amahitamo afatika mu buzima bwabo bwa buri munsi. Barrymore ni we wa mbere ku isi mu gushyigikira no gushora imari mu bijyanye no kubungabunga ibidukikije muri iki kinyamakuru Grove.
Isaha imwe na Barrymore ishobora kunsubiza ubuzima; hari ikintu kimpumuriza cyane kuri we kandi inama ze zirahari, byaba uburyo bwo gutuma ibiruhuko biba amahoro kandi bishimishije, cyangwa gutanga amayeri yoroshye yo gutuma ibiruhuko birushaho kuba byiza, nko gukata pulasitiki mu nzu yawe, gukodesha, kuzana amashuka yawe n'isabune zo kumesa imyenda, isabune na shampoo, cyangwa gutanga uburambe aho gutanga ibindi. Ku bijyanye no kubungabunga ubuzima n'ibyemezo by'umwaka mushya, ni byiza gutangira gato - no kubaka ingeso, nk'uko Barrymore abivuga.
“Ibande ku mpinduka nyazo eshatu kugeza kuri eshanu wifuza gukora,” avuga ku byemezo by’umwaka mushya. “Si ngombwa ko biba biremereye, bityo bishobora kuba byiza cyane kandi bitera imbaraga…akantu gato gashimishije wifuza gukora.”
Barrymore yaganiriye na NYLON kuri byose kuva ku kuntu yakwishimira Noheli wenyine kugeza ku bicuruzwa bya Grove bimufasha kumara ibiruhuko bye mu buryo burambye.
Natangira n'ingendo no gupakira. Ngerageza gutwara isabune imwe gusa, shampoo imwe, udukapu twa Grove twongera gukoreshwa two gukoresha uduti twanjye duto two mu bwoko bwa floss dushobora kubora, n'udutambaro two mu gikoni twa Grove tea tree, udutambaro twanjye tw'intoki mu by'ukuri twakozwe muri ibyo. Numvaga meze nk'agace ka styrofoam mu gihe cyo gukaraba intoki no kugerageza gukuraho ibintu byose bya pulasitiki mu buzima bwanjye. Aha ndatangira.
Nanjye natekereje gusa: gerageza gutegura urugendo rwawe uko bishoboka kose kugira ngo rubungabunge ibidukikije, byaba ari indege y'ubucuruzi kugira ngo uhagere cyangwa kuba mu nzu ibungabunge ibidukikije ijyanye n'ingengo y'imari yawe n'imibereho yawe. Nkunda kuzana amashuka y'isabune yo kumesa imyenda ya Grove mu ngo zikodeshwa, bityo ndakeka ko biterwa n'urugendo. Ndi mu rugendo kuri Noheli ariko ngiye mu rugendo rw'ikiruhuko cy'impeshyi aho nzakodesha inzu kandi imyenda yanjye yo kumesa imyenda ya Grove izajyana nanjye.
Simfite umuryango gakondo cyane, bityo ntabwo twakoze igiti cya Noheli, ntabwo twatanze impano. Mu by'ukuri, namaze iminsi myinshi y'ibiruhuko nsoma ibitabo njyenyine. Hari igihe iyo mfite ishyaka njya mu rugendo n'inshuti, ariko igice kinini cy'ubuzima bwanjye kirambabaza cyane mu biruhuko kandi buri gihe mba numva nduhutse bitewe n'uko bigoye.
Hanyuma nakuze numva nti “Erega, niba ngiye kumara iminsi mikuru ndi njyenyine, iyi ni amahitamo meza.” Sinkora kandi ngiye gusoma igitabo. Nshobora kuguma mu rugo mu minsi mikuru. Ni iminsi mike gusa. Urayisoma gusa. Hanyuma natangiye gukunda cyane kuba ndi njyenyine.
Nkunda cyane Friendgiving ndetse wenda n'inshuti zanjye z'abakobwa badakunda umuryango cyangwa bashobora kugira ikiruhuko cy'umuryango ariko ku ya 27 Ukuboza tuzaba turi ahantu runaka. Natekereje nti, "Ni byiza, reka dufate gahunda y'urugendo, maze mpindura igitekerezo cyanjye. Iminsi mikuru ishobora kuba ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose." Hanyuma nakunze David Sedaris maze nibwira nti, "Oh, ikiruhuko gishobora kuba cyiza, ndabyumva."
Ndatekereza ko abantu benshi bamara iminsi mikuru imwe buri mwaka w'ubuzima bwabo. Twese turarikira kandi tugakunda imiryango iba mu nzu imwe, ifite umuryango munini kandi ikora ibintu bimwe buri mwaka. Ndifuza kugira uyu muco no kuwuteza imbere. Ndatekereza ko nta bice byinshi n'ibihe byinshi bibaho mu buzima bwawe.
Noneho ubu mfite abana, dushushanya igiti cyacu, dufite imitako yacu, dushyiraho ubunyobwa bwa Vince Guaraldi, tugura igiti hamwe na se wabo na nyina wacu Ellie. Buri mwaka tujyayo, tugafata amafoto kandi tukabikora. Turimo kubaka umurage wacu mu nzira.
Ariko kuri njye n'abakobwa, natekereje nti “Tuzajya dukora ingendo buri Noheli.” Sinshaka gutanga impano munsi y'igiti. Ndashaka kujyana aho uzibuka, nzafata ifoto nkayikoramo igitabo, hanyuma turebe ubutunzi bw'ibintu byiza byabaye mu buzima. Nanone, ndatekereza ko ingendo zishobora kwagura cyane ubwenge bw'umuntu n'icyerekezo cye.
Mu gihe cyose nshobora kwibuka, buri mwaka mushya niyandikira ikarita kandi akenshi nzana indabo z'abantu ndi kumwe nabo, aho ndi hose. Nanone mara igihe kinini mu ijoro ry'Ubunani ndi jyenyine, ariko iyo ndi kumwe n'abantu, cyangwa mu birori byo gusangira, cyangwa mu rugendo ndi kumwe n'itsinda, nzaba mfite ibihagije kuri buri wese kandi nzareba neza ko bafite kashe kuri bo kuko ibyo ari byo byose bikorwa. Aho binaniranye. Nutabishyira ahagaragara muri iryo joro, ntuzabishyira ahagaragara. Ndavuga ngo wandike icyemezo cyawe kuri byo hanyuma ubyoherereze.
Birasekeje ukuntu buri gihe ntekereza ibintu bimwe kenshi kandi bigaragara ko ari ingeso mbi mu buzima bwanjye, nko kuvuga ngo “Nzabikora gake”. Ndacyandika ibi. Amaherezo nabikosoye. Rero nishimiye kuvuga ko ari ikizamini cyiza cya litmus kuko utekereza Mana yanjye, ko ari kimwe buri mwaka? Biracyari ikibazo. Birashishikaje.
Ziri ahantu hose kuko zoherezwa kuri aderesi zitandukanye, ari zo bohereza ubutumwa butandukanye. Ndifuza ko nashoboraga kuzishyira ku murongo neza buri mwaka. Ngomba kunyura mu dusanduku twinshi two kubikamo ibintu no kwimura ibintu. Ndifuza cyane ko nashoboraga gutunganya ibintu byose neza muri ubu buryo. Hanyuma hari ibintu bisekeje nka "Dental Floss".
Wenda akazi gato muri uyu mwaka. Sinzi niba nshobora kubikora, ariko nzagerageza. Bizaba ari ibi: “Iyo witesheje agaciro cyangwa ufite imitekerereze mibi, fata.” “Wibuke ko nta gihe kinini usigaranye kuri iyi si. Ntushobora kwandika aya makarita iteka ryose. Nzagutera ikirenge.”
Yego rwose. Kandi ndatekereza ko undi ahora ahamye. Mfite abana, sinari meze nk'uyu mugabo kuva kera, ni umwe mu nshuti zanjye z'abakobwa wahinduye ubuzima bwanjye cyane. Niba wita ku bandi bantu kurusha wowe ubwawe, nk'abana bawe, inshuti zawe, umuryango wawe, cyangwa undi muntu uwo ari we wese, bagutere imbaraga zo gushaka kugumana igihe kirekire kuri iyi si.
Ndashimira Grove, ubu mfite iyi mpano: Ndatangira gukorana n'abandi, uyu ni umuryango mushya nashinze, kandi nitaye cyane ku bantu bose dukorana kandi ndashaka kubashimisha, ndashima ibyo bakora ku isi kandi ndashaka kuba umwe mu baharanira impinduka zitangaje.
Ariko mu by'ukuri, nanjye ndi umuntu ukunda ubwiza. Filozofiya yose y'imirongo myiza nkora ni ingenzi cyane kuri njye, kandi ni uko ibintu biba mu maso yawe bigomba kuba byiza. Imiterere ya Grove ni igezweho cyane, isukuye kandi ni nshya. Nubwo nongera gushyiramo icupa ryanjye, sinkoresha kuko nkunda uko rigaragara. Hanyuma iyo nyibonye, ​​iranyishimira kandi nkora ikintu cyiza, bigatuma numva meze neza.
Mu by’ukuri byose bigaruka ku myitwarire. Iyo tudakoze ikintu cyiza, ntabwo tubibika mu mitima yacu. Iyo dukora ikintu cyiza, igihe cyose tubibutse, tubyina imbyino nto y’intsinzi kuri byo. Rero, Grove ni ikigo cy’ingenzi cyane, kandi nari umuguzi n’umukiriya mbere yuko bansaba kwinjira muri sosiyete. Ni ukuri kuri njye no ku buzima bwanjye kandi nishimiye cyane gukorana nabo. Abakobwa banjye barabikunda. Twese dukoresha ibicuruzwa bya Grove. Ntibabona pulasitiki mu nzu. Tubaho uku kuri. Bityo bazarerwa mu buryo busanzwe, kandi ndatekereza ko abakiri bato bazi neza ibi byose.
Ese wumva gukorana na Grove byahinduye ubuzima bwawe bwose, atari uko ukora isuku gusa, ahubwo n'uko ubaho mu bijyanye no kubungabunga ibidukikije?
Birumvikana ko ibi byose ari amasabune, ariko ibi ni amasashe ashobora kongera gukoreshwa, udutambaro two kwisiga, imyenda y'ipamba, amacupa akoreshwa ahantu hose n'ibindi bintu tugura muri Grove Market. Abakobwa bambonye mvuga nti “Sinshobora gukoresha ayo mashashi ya pulasitiki ukundi.” Ni iki cyansubije? Nuko nsanga ashobora kubora cyangwa ashobora gufumbira. Utangira kugenzura buri gace.
Ibiruhuko bisa nkaho ari igihe cyiza kuri ibi, kuko ubusanzwe ari igihe cyo gukora ibintu byinshi birenze urugero.
Yego. Ndatekereza ko mbirinda kugerageza kuba umuntu utekereza cyane mu mwaka wose. Nanjye nshobora no kubona impano ku minsi mikuru. Natekereje ko nzakoherereza impano muri Gicurasi kuko hari ikintu kibaho kikagutera imbaraga.
Nibyo rwose. Nishimiye ibihembo n'impano z'abantu dukorana umwaka wose kuko hari ikintu cyabaye.
Njyewe. Nahitamo gukoresha amafaranga yanjye kuri ibi, ngakora urwibutso, ngafungura amaso yanjye nkabona byinshi ku isi. Iyi ni yo ntego yanjye ikomeye kuri njye.
Ese hari inama ufite ku bantu yo kubahiriza ibyifuzo byabo by'umwaka mushya? Ese twese twabishyira ku ikarita y'iposita tukayimanika ku rukuta?
Yego. Kandi shyiramo gatatu cyangwa gatanu, ntukongere gutega. Wibagirwa gusa icyo ari cyo ariko ntibibeho. Ibande ku mpinduka nyazo eshatu kugeza kuri eshanu ushaka gukora, ntabwo zigomba kuba ziremereye kugira ngo zibe nziza kandi zigutere inkunga. Utuntu duto dushimishije wifuza gukora.


Igihe cyo kohereza: 31 Mutarama 2023