Kwa zaka 30 zapitazi, Drew Barrymore wakhala akulemba zofuna zake pa ma poskareti ndi kuzitumiza kwa iyemwini pa Chaka Chatsopano. Ndi mwambo womwe amachita yekha kapena ndi ena, ndipo kulikonse komwe amapita kutchuthi chake, amabweretsa ma poskareti osindikizidwa kale kuti alembe zolinga zake za chaka chino. Ma poskareti azaka zingapo zapitazi ali paliponse m'ma adilesi osiyanasiyana ndi mabokosi osungiramo zinthu, zomwe ndi malonjezo omwe amasunga ndi kuswa.
"Nthawi zonse ndimamva, mobwerezabwereza, kuti ichi ndi chizolowezi choipa m'moyo wanga," adatero kwa NYLON kudzera pa Zoom. "Pambuyo pa zaka 20, ndinaganiza kuti: "Ndizomvetsa chisoni kuti ndikulembabe izi. Pomaliza ndinakonza ndipo ndikusangalala kunena, koma ndi mayeso abwino a litmus chifukwa muli ngati, Mulungu, chinthu chomwecho." chaka chilichonse?"
Chaka chino, Barrymore akufuna kuchepetsa ntchito - ntchito yovuta kwa wochita seweroli komanso wotsogolera pulogalamu yolankhulirana. Koma ndi nkhani yokhudza kudzigwira pamene akusiya ndikupitirizabe kuyenda bwino, zomwe zinapangitsa kuti zikhale zosavuta chifukwa cha mgwirizano wake ndi Grove Co., kampani yoyamba padziko lonse kugulitsa zinthu zachilengedwe. Barrymore anali woyamba padziko lonse lapansi wolimbikitsa komanso woika ndalama pa bizinesi yosamalira zinthu za tsiku ndi tsiku.
Ola limodzi ndi Barrymore lingakonze moyo wanga; pali china chake chotonthoza kwambiri chokhudza iye ndipo upangiri wake ulipo, kaya ndi momwe mungapangire tchuthi kukhala chamtendere komanso chokongola, kapena kupereka njira zosavuta kuti tchuthi chikhale chokhazikika, monga kudula pulasitiki m'nyumba mwanu, kubwereka, kubweretsa mapepala anu ndi sopo kuti mugwiritse ntchito sopo wochapira zovala, sopo ndi shampu, kapena perekani zokumana nazo m'malo mwa zinthu zina. Ponena za kukhazikika ndi zolinga za Chaka Chatsopano, ndibwino kuyamba pang'ono - komanso zambiri zokhudza kumanga zizolowezi, akutero Barrymore.
“Yang'anani kwambiri pa kusintha kwenikweni katatu kapena kasanu komwe mukufuna kupanga,” akutero ponena za zolinga za Chaka Chatsopano. “Siziyenera kukhala zolemera, kotero zitha kukhala zokongola komanso zolimbikitsa…kanthu kakang'ono kokongola komwe mukufuna kuchita.”
Barrymore adalankhula ndi NYLON za chilichonse kuyambira momwe angasangalalire ndi Khirisimasi yekha mpaka zinthu za Grove zomwe zimamuthandiza kuthera nthawi yake yopuma bwino.
Ndikayamba ndi ulendo ndi kulongedza katundu. Ndimayesetsa kunyamula sopo imodzi yokha, shampu imodzi, matumba ogwiritsidwanso ntchito a Grove a ndodo zanga zazing'ono zowola, ndi matawulo a kukhitchini a mtengo wa tiyi wa Grove, matawulo anga amanja amapangidwa kuchokera pamenepo. Ndinkamva ngati chidutswa cha styrofoam munthawi yonse yosamba m'manja ndikuyesera kuchotsa zinthu zonse zapulasitiki m'moyo wanga. Apa ndikuyamba.
Ndinangoganizanso kuti: yesani kukonzekera ulendo wanu momwe mungathere kuti ukhale wochezeka ndi chilengedwe, kaya ndi ndege yamalonda yopita kumeneko kapena kukhala m'malo ochezeka ndi chilengedwe omwe akugwirizana ndi bajeti yanu komanso moyo wanu. Ndimakonda kubweretsa mapepala a sopo wochapira zovala ku Grove ku nyumba zobwereka, kotero ndikuganiza kuti zimadalira kwambiri ulendowu. Ndikupita ku Khirisimasi ino koma ndikupita paulendo wa masika komwe ndidzakhala ndikubwereka nyumba ndipo zovala zanga zotsukira zovala ku Grove zidzabwera nane.
Ndilibe banja lachikhalidwe, kotero sitinapange mtengo wa Khirisimasi, sitinapange mphatso. Ndipotu, ndinkakhala ndi tchuthi chambiri ndikuwerenga mabuku ndekha. Nthawi zina ngati ndili ndi chilimbikitso ndimapita paulendo ndi mnzanga, koma nthawi zambiri ndimavutika ndi tchuthi ndipo nthawi zonse ndimazindikira momwe zimakhalira zovuta.
Kenako ndinakula ndikumva kuti, “Hei, ngati ndikhala ndekha pa tchuthi, iyi ndi njira yolimbikitsa.” Sindigwira ntchito ndipo ndiwerenga buku. Ndikhoza kukhala kunyumba pa tchuthi. Ndi masiku ochepa okha. Umangowerenga. Kenako ndinayamba kukonda kwambiri kukhala ndekha.
Ndimasangalala kwambiri ndi Friendgiving ndipo mwina ndimayenda ndi atsikana omwe sakonda banja kapena akhoza kukhala ndi tchuthi cha banja koma pofika pa Disembala 27 tidzakhala titafika kwinakwake. Ndinaganiza bwino, tiyeni tisungire ulendo, ndipo ndinasintha maganizo anga. Matchuthi akhoza kukhala chilichonse. Kenako ndinakondana ndi David Sedaris ndipo ndinaganiza kuti, o, tchuthi chingakhale chosangalatsa, ndamvetsa.
Sindikuganiza kuti anthu ambiri amakhala ndi tchuthi chomwecho chaka chilichonse cha moyo wawo. Tonsefe timasirira ndi kuyamikira mabanja omwe amakhala m'nyumba imodzi, ali ndi banja lalikulu komanso amachita zomwezo chaka chilichonse. Ndikufuna kukhala ndi mwambo uwu ndikukulitsa. Ndikuganiza kuti palibe mitu ndi nyengo zambiri m'moyo wanu.
Kotero tsopano ndili ndi ana, timakongoletsa mtengo wathu, tili ndi zokongoletsa zathu, timavala mtedza wa Vince Guaraldi, timagula mtengo ndi abambo awo ndi amayi athu opeza Ellie. Timapita chaka chilichonse, kujambula zithunzi ndikuchita zomwezo. Tikungomanga cholowa chathu panjira.
Koma ine ndi atsikana, ndinaganiza kuti, “Tidzakhala tikuyenda Khirisimasi iliyonse.” Sindikufuna kupereka mphatso pansi pa mtengo. Ndikufuna kukutengerani kumalo komwe mudzakumbukire, ndidzajambula chithunzi ndikupanga buku, ndipo tiyeni tipange chuma chambiri cha zokumana nazo zabwino pamoyo. Komanso, ndikuganiza kuti kuyenda kungakulitse kwambiri malingaliro ndi malingaliro a munthu.
Kwa nthawi yonse yomwe ndikukumbukira, chaka chatsopano chilichonse ndimalemba khadi langa ndipo nthawi zambiri ndimabweretsa maluwa a anthu omwe ndili nawo, kulikonse komwe ndili. Ndimatheranso nthawi yambiri pa Chaka Chatsopano ndekha, koma ngati ndili ndi anthu, kapena pa phwando la chakudya chamadzulo, kapena ndikuyenda ndi gulu, ndidzakhala ndi zokwanira aliyense ndipo ndidzaonetsetsa kuti ali ndi masitampu pa iwo chifukwa ndizo zonse zomwe zikuchitika. Kumene zalephera. Ngati simukuzilemba usiku umenewo, simudzazilemba. Ndikukuuzani kuti lembani zomwe mwasankha ndipo muzitumizire nokha.
Ndizoseketsa momwe nthawi zonse ndimaganizira zinthu zomwezo mobwerezabwereza ndipo ndi chizolowezi choipa m'moyo wanga, monga "Ndichita zochepa". Ndikulembabe izi. Pomaliza ndakonza. Chifukwa chake ndikusangalala kunena, koma ndi mayeso abwino a litmus chifukwa mukuganiza, Mulungu, ndi chinthu chomwecho chaka chilichonse? Ndi vutobe. Zosangalatsa.
Ali paliponse chifukwa amatumizidwa ku maadiresi osiyanasiyana, omwe ndi mabokosi osiyanasiyana a makalata. Ndikanakonda ndikanawayika bwino chaka chilichonse. Ndimayenera kudutsa m'mabokosi ambiri osungiramo zinthu ndi zinthu zosuntha. Ndikulakalaka ndikanakonza chilichonse bwino motere. Kenako pali zinthu zopusa monga "Dental Floss".
Mwina ndigwire ntchito pang'ono chaka chino. Sindikudziwa ngati ndingathe kuchita, koma ndiyesa. Idzakhala: “Mukamadzichotsera ulemu kapena kukhala ndi maganizo oipa, dzigwireni.” “Kumbukirani, mulibe nthawi yochuluka padziko lapansi. Simungathe kulemba ma poskarenti awa kwamuyaya. Ndidzakugwetsani pansi.”
Inde. Ndipo ndikuganiza kuti winayo nthawi zonse amakhala wokhazikika. Ndili ndi ana, sindinali munthu wotere nthawi zonse, anali m'modzi mwa atsikana anga aakazi omwe adasintha moyo wanga. Ngati mumasamala za anthu ena kuposa inu nokha, monga ana anu, anzanu, banja lanu, kapena wina aliyense, aloleni akulimbikitseni kuti mufune kukhala nthawi yayitali padziko lapansi lino.
Chifukwa cha Grove, tsopano ndili ndi mphatso iyi: Ndayamba kugwira ntchito limodzi, iyi ndi banja latsopano lomwe ndapanga, ndipo ndimasamala kwambiri anthu onse omwe ndimagwira nawo ntchito ndipo ndikufuna kuwasangalatsa, ndimayamikira zomwe amachita padziko lapansi ndipo ndikufuna kukhala mbali ya kusintha kodabwitsa komwe akuyesera kupanga.
Koma kunena zoona, inenso ndimakonda kwambiri kukongola. Malingaliro onse a mizere yokongola yomwe ndimapanga ndi ofunikira kwambiri kwa ine, ndipo ndikuti zinthu zomwe zimakhala m'maso mwanu ziyenera kukhala zokongola. Kukongola kwa Grove ndi kwamakono kwambiri, koyera komanso kwatsopano. Ngakhale ndikadzaza botolo langa, sindiligwiritsa ntchito chifukwa ndimakonda momwe limaonekera. Kenako ndikawona, limandilimbikitsa ndipo ndimachita chinthu chabwino, chomwe chimandipangitsa kumva bwino.
Zoona zake zonse zimabwerera ku khalidwe. Ngati sitichita chinthu chabwino, sitichisunga m'mitima mwathu. Ngati tikuchita chinthu chabwino, nthawi iliyonse tikakumbutsidwa, timavina pang'ono ngati chigonjetso. Chifukwa chake, Grove ndi kampani yofunika kwambiri, ndipo ndinali wogula komanso kasitomala asanandipemphe kuti ndilowe nawo kampaniyo. Ndi yeniyeni kwa ine ndi moyo wanga ndipo ndikusangalala kwambiri kugwira nawo ntchito. Atsikana anga amakonda kwambiri. Tonsefe timagwiritsa ntchito zinthu za Grove. Saona pulasitiki m'nyumba. Timakhala ndi chowonadi ichi. Chifukwa chake adzaleredwa mwachibadwa, ndipo ndikuganiza kuti mbadwo wachinyamata ukudziwa bwino zonsezi.
Kodi mukuona kuti kugwira ntchito ndi Grove kwasintha moyo wanu wonse, osati momwe mumachitira ukhondo, komanso momwe mumakhalira pankhani yokhazikika?
Zachidziwikire, chifukwa zonsezi ndi zotsukira mano, koma izi ndi matumba ogwiritsidwanso ntchito, zopukutira mano, nsalu, mabotolo opezeka paliponse ndi zinthu zina zomwe timagula ku Grove Market. Atsikanawo anandiona ndikunena kuti, “Sindingathenso kugwiritsa ntchito zotsukira mano zapulasitiki zimenezo.” Yankho lanji? Kotero ndinapeza kuti zitha kuwola kapena kusungunuka. Mumayamba kufufuza kawiri malo onse.
Masiku a tchuthi amaoneka ngati nthawi yabwino pa izi, chifukwa nthawi zambiri ndi nthawi yochita zinthu zambiri mopitirira muyeso.
Inde. Ndikuganiza kuti ndimapewa izi poyesa kukhala munthu woganizira ena chaka chonse. Inenso ndikhoza kulandira mphatso za tchuthi. Ndikuganiza kuti ndikutumizirani mphatso mu Meyi chifukwa china chake chimachitika chomwe chingakulimbikitseni.
Ndithu. Ndasangalala ndi mabhonasi ndi mphatso zomwe anthu omwe ndimagwira nawo ntchito andipatsa chaka chonse chifukwa cha zomwe zachitika.
Ine. Ndingakonde kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zanga pa izi, kupanga zokumbukira, kutsegula maso anga ndikuwona zambiri za dziko lapansi. Ichi ndiye cholinga changa chachikulu kwa ine.
Kodi muli ndi upangiri uliwonse woti anthu asunge zolinga zawo za Chaka Chatsopano? Kodi tonse tiyenera kuziyika izi pa positi khadi ndikuzipachika pakhoma?
Inde. Ndipo bet atatu kapena asanu, musabetchenso. Mungoiwala zomwe zili ndipo sizichitika. Yang'anani pa kusintha kwenikweni katatu kapena kasanu komwe mukufuna kupanga, sikuyenera kukhala kolemera kotero kungakhale kokoma komanso kolimbikitsa. Zinthu zazing'ono zosangalatsa zomwe mukufuna kuchita.
Nthawi yotumizira: Januwale-31-2023